A Note Written on Father's Day 2012

In this post, I would like to suggest several ideas that were shared by Dr. David Lose, our keynote speaker at our last South Carolina Synod Assembly. Dr. Lose reported that since 1970 there have been massive cultural changes in our nation that have impacted Christianity in all denominations, and church membership and attendance continues to be in decline. A recent Pew Report indicated that atheism is now the fastest growing “religious affiliation” in the nation, and an even more recent report indicated that belief in God has decreased for the first time in decades, In short, if your adult children are no longer attending church, it is not your fault. You are not personally responsible for your adult children’s absence from church.

Second, no matter what combination of specific things happened to cause your adult children to fall away, keep in mind the power of God’s love. Continue to pray for your children to grow in faith and return to the Church. Do not give in to indifference – indifference is the opposite of faith. Do not lose hope, either -- discouragement is one of Satan’s greatest weapons. If discouragement comes, trust in God, and remember that God loves your children even more than you do. God doesn’t need you or me to convert a heart. We're his instruments among many others, and he alone the saving (1 Cor. 3:5-7).
Third, bear your testimony to the truth in a spirit of love. Surely the fact of your unfailing love will communicate itself to them in God’s time, and their hearts may begin to open to the working of God’s Holy Spirit and his Truth. As you turn to him for guidance, and trust him for direction he will give you the grace necessary to persevere.
Finally, continue to grow in your own understanding of the Christian faith so you can witness to your adult children more effectively. Review the Small Catechism. It's the best single reference book Lutheran parents have for communicating our faith and correcting errors. Pray for opportunities to share the faith with your children. God will open the doors!
Below are a few verses you may find useful when you find yourself in need of immediate spiritual help….
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6
“…whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent of praiseworthy—think about such things. Philippians 4:8
“Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me---put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you”. Philippians 4:9
May the God who is our Father bless you on this Father’s Day and on all the days to come!

Pastor Garry White