Spirituality #3 - A Personal Rule of Life

Following the example of Benedictine monasteries who use the Rule of St. Benedict (found at http://www.osb.org/) to guide their lives together, some Christian people elect to develop their own personal Rule as a guide to their own living. I have one for myself, and recommend the practice. Developing and following a personal Rule as a spiritual discipline can serve to focus and sharpen our attention on living a Christ-like life.

Here are some brief suggestions to get started:
1) Start with the three categories that form a central core for Christian living: (a) prayer and worship, (b) study and learning, and (c) service to others.

2) Using these categories, develop a general plan that fits your unique life and circumstances. You may wish to consider the following questions:
- How often do I pray each day? Strict Benedictine monasteries pray seven times each day, those not as strict pray at least three. Martin Luther once recommended three times of prayer each day: on rising in the morning, on returning home each evening, and at bedtime. Benedictines sometimes refer to morning and evening as the "hinges" of the day, especially suitable as reminders for prayer. Praying a table blessing at mealtimes is another natural time for prayer.
- How do I pray? Christians have found comfort in a large variety of types of prayer, ranging from contempation, to simple conversations with God, to the "daily office," to praying the rosary, to walking a labyrinth. There are many discussions on line that are great to explore. Add something new to your prayer life and you may find it to be a gift from God.
- Do I worship regularly with other Christians? If your answer is 'no,' you may wish to rethink this. Christianity is practiced best in a community where we can learn and grow. Denominational labels are important only as starting points. Explore. Find a community that fits you, without expecting perfection. Solo Christianity is virtally a contradiction in terms, and Christ has promised to be present in the midst of "two or three" gathered in his name.
- Do I regularly engage in religious studies? Christianity has been around for 2,000 years, and in that time has built up a literally incredible body of commentaries, reflections, theological treatises, and devotional materials. Visit a library, try http://www.ccel.org/ on the internet, or explore the many other sources available.
- In what ways do I devote portions of my life to serving others? What people do I encounter who are in need of help (in need of help, not 'deserving' of help)? Like community, service is an essential part of Christianity. We trust in and worship a God who gives of Her/Himself continually, and we are made in His/Her image. Christ has promised to be present in those we serve.

Blessings!
Pastor Garry